Friday, May 11, 2012

MET GALA 2012

So the MET took place earlier this, just thought I'd share who wore what. Must say though, didn't like most of the dresses but hey I ain't that fashion savvy so I'll reserve my opinions to myself and let you decide.
Blake Lively - Chanel
Leighton Meester - Marchesa....Big Fail

Mary-Kate Olsen...hehe yaze yaguga ingane incane
Renee Zellweger

Ed Westick...ok he's the odd one out but I just love the hotness that is Chuck Bass

Sarah Jessica Parker - Valentio

Scarlett Johansen - Dolce & Gabbana...can anubody say Dolce *zulu accent* lol, love this dress

Stella McCartney....this is beyond terrible, it has to be said

Lala Anthony

Kristen Stewart - Balenciaya

Alicia Keys - mara those shoes would irritate me

Jessica Biel - Prada....kodwa umphetho usushonephi

Gwyneth Paltrow - Prada

Gisele Bunchden

Hilary Swank - Michael Kors

Emma Stone - Lavin
Janelle Monae


Taylor Swift
Rihanna - Tom Ford
Rihanna (back view)

Emma Roberts - Escada...this is one of my favorites
January Jones - Versace

Solange Knowles - Rachel Ray
Eva Mendes - Prada

Anna Wintour - Prada

Christina Ricc - Thakoon

Dakota Fanning - Louis Vuitton...mara she looked like she was going to the prom

Paula Patton - Vera Wang

Jessica Alba - Michael Kors

Nina Dobrev - Donna Karan

Sofia Vergara - Marchesa

Beyonce Knowles - Rachel Roy

Beyonce Knowles (back view)....I'm sorry but this one, ayingeke





Elephant Shoes

I can't seem to get this song out of my head ever since I heard it on 5fm. It's a track by South African artist Jimmy Nevis - Elephant Shoes, signed to Rude World Records...too nice and it doesn't hurt that Jimmy Nevis is well....I'd rather not say, I am a married woman after all. I'ma look out for this dude, he's gonna blow up big time. Follow him on twitter @JimmyNevis and no I'm not his publicist I just think his really good.


Jimmy Nevis - Elephant Shoes

I'm also loving this track by Trey Songz. The story line is played out but Kelly Rowland and Trey Songz have good chemistry in this video. This is the type of video you'll never get tired watching it until the end, no matter how many times you've seen it. Besides having two beautiful people as these two on a video, both successful in their own right, you never go wrong.

Trey Songz -  Heart Attack

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Vera Wang's black bridal gown collection, fab or drab?

My last fashion post was mainly for guys (see previous post: First impressions count), ok and maybe eye candy for the ladies, but this time it's girls only.
Almost every girl has an idea for their dream wedding (I'm special coz I never dreamed of getting married, hence I had no perfect wedding in mind but suprisingly I found myself walking down the isle, not so long ago, but the most exciting part of all the preperations was choosing my wedding gown). So whether you plan on saying, "I Do" in the near future (that is if your nigga ain't trippin') or maybe 10 years from now, it wouldn't hurt looking at a few dresses every now and again. Besides a girl is allowed to dream. 
Heck, I enjoyed wearing my gown so much I'm already thinking what to wear when I renew my vows a couple of years down the line *laughs to self*, don't judge me.
So, is the traditional white, and sometimes Ivory, wedding gown the way to go or is it time to be daring and get a little, or maybe not so little, creative?











    


Vera Wang

Vera Wang worked at U.S. Vogue for 16 years as a senior fashion editor before leaving and setting up her bridal design company.
She left Vogue after she was overlooked for the editor-in-chief position, currently held by Anna Wintour, and went to work at Ralph Lauren, where she stayed on as design director for two years.
In 1990 she opened a bridal salon in New York's Carlyle hotel where her dresses continue to be sold today.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

A day in the life of taxi operators

S’nethemba Gumede

Many a times stories are written about taxi drivers and the taxi industry in general. More often than not, these stories reflect negatively on this industry. Not to say that some of the things written are not true but surely there must be some good as it is one of the most popular forms of transportation in country. Cleary the South African government has come to this realization which explains their notion to start a taxi academy where drivers and conductors or SDO’s (sliding door operators), as they are commonly known, will be trained how to run their businesses and equip them with the skills of practicing proper customer care.
With this in mind a colleague of mine and myself took to the taxi’s to get insight into the happenings of this industry on a day to day basis and a day in the life of drivers and conductors or SDO’s (sliding door operators) as they are commonly known. She spoke to the driver while I attempted to speak to the conductor but had to stop every time he jumped off to call passengers.
West Street in Durban, one of the busiest roads in the city,
often a hive of taxi activity
While travelling in one of the taxi’s, operating in the CBD and Point area, I witnessed  another side to conductors that is often not seen.
A lady, presumably around the age of 50, hails for the taxi to stop. The conductor jumps off the taxi and helps the lady, who appears to have an injured leg as she is using a walking stick and her leg is bandaged, into the taxi. Conductors are often known for their rudeness and ill treating of passengers but it appears there are a select few who know how to practice proper customer care.
This conductor is Nkule Dube, 22, from Ntuzuma a location near Inanda, wakes up  everyday at 4am and is at work by 5am one hour before taxi’s start operating. He says he hardly eats in the morning as he is always in a rush to get to work. “On busy days our first meal of the day is usually at 1pm but on ordinary occasions we eat at 9am or 10am when we are done with the morning rush of individuals going to work,” he says. Dube says he often fights with the driver, over what time they should go and eat, because he (driver) doesn’t want to take a break but carry on making money.
Dube has been a conductor for almost eight years. “My father died in the year 2000 and my mother the following year. My siblings and I were very young at the time so it was tough but we had to work together to make ends meet.” Dube says one day a friend of his, who was also a conductor, suggested Dube go with him to town and hang around the rank in hopes of being approached by drivers to help them count the money. Indeed a driver did approach him. “I was still in primary school then, grade 7, so I would go to school during the week and on the weekends I would work as a conductor.”
SDO Nkule Dube with driver, Siphosenkosi Nxazonke Picture:Sandile Ndlovu
Before he can carry on telling his story, the taxi stops and Dube jumps out calling on for people to get into his taxi. “Uyahamba Ma?” meaning are you going mam? “South Beach, Wheel, Point,” he shouts informing potential passengers where the taxi is going. Almost every two minutes, and sometimes less, the taxi stops and Dube has to repeat the same routine. “This goes on from six in the morning until six in the afternoon,” says Dube, “there’s hardly enough time to rest because there is almost always someone along the sidewalk waiting for a taxi.” Even if pedestrians don’t indicate for the taxi to stop it does so anyway, “because at times they are waiting for a nice taxi to take but once you start talking to them and ask them politely where they going, often they will agree to get into your taxi, fancy or not,” he says. Dube admits though that the condition of the taxi, sound and the music booming from it, plays a major role in helping the people decide whether they want to use the taxi or not.
After some time Dube carries on with his story. “As difficult as it was my brother and sister, whom are older than me, tried to put me through school but I quit after I failed grade 11 twice.” He says he had wanted a job that would make him respected and feel like a somebody.
“I must admit,” says Dube distractedly as he tries to signal through the window for people to come into the taxi, “that being a conductor isn’t the best job in the world  but it pays and I am able to bring a small contribution back home at the end of the day.” Dube says conductors in the CBD earn R150 a day and sometimes R200 if the driver is generous.
During my time spent travelling around in the taxi, with paying of course, I paid witness to the many difficult experiences conductors and drivers encounter, resulting in them losing their patience and sometimes responding rudely. “I think because of the stereotypes around the taxi industry, that we are rude and don’t know how to treat people, you find that passengers treat us in that same manner without being provoked. “Whether it’s asking for change or asking to jump off, they often speak harshly.” Dube admits that it is not always easy to remain calm but that in order for them to succeed they have to endure the abuse and respond in the politest manner they are able to.
This experience has proven to that there always is two sides to a story. Often the confusion arises from two, or more party’s involved, not taking the time or making attempts to understand where the other is coming from or be open minded about the situation.
Durban's English Market, not my favourite part of the city
By the time we were done with the interviews we were starving. I myself had not eaten breakfast as I had been rushing to get town to catch the morning rush and busyness of the taxi’s. So before we headed back to the office, Dube and the driver took us to a shisa nyama, on the outskirts of the early morning market, where they usually grab a bite to eat. I must admit that I am not a fan of the market, if you live in Durban you will understand why, but this experience called me to get out of mu comfort zone and be open minded. Once I started eating the meat, which tasted devine, and downing an ice cold coke I forgot about my surroundings and the fact that there was good conversation helped.

Damn that meat was good

Then of course it was back to the office to document my findings. I was some what exhausted and having to sit in front of the computer was a drag. Call me lazy, maybe I am, but it made me realize how tiring their job was. I only did two trips around the CBD and they do almost more than 50 every day. I have a new found respect for drivers and their conductors. *done with me*
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Friday, May 27, 2011

For guys: First impressions count...


...and the next and the next.
There can never be enough fashion blogs, for men or women. Therefore we shall continue to do so until the world is rid of fashion disasters. Yes everyone has their own style or unique taste but which ever style you like you have to make it look good and work for you.
I'm not a fashion expert but I do have an opinion. So...
Here is my personal compilation of male casual, smart casual and formal wear, which I prefer. Whether you like these styles or not doesn't matter. Point is you have to put an effort to your appearance no matter where you go, whether its an award function, party or even going to get milk and bread at the local supermarket. 

So ladies enjoy the eye candy and guys please do take notes...  
























Wednesday, May 25, 2011

A Paradox

By George Carlin


The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems                                                         more medicine, but less wellnes.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. 
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbour. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. 
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. 

 These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete... 
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. 
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you. 
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.


AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: 
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
George Carlin